AEM Podcast #79 Dr Naomi Fisher – "Boarding School Is Developmentally Damaging" Leading Clinical Psychologist

An Evolving Man Podcast (AEM) #79

Leading Clinical Psychologist: "Boarding School Is Developmentally Damaging" | Dr Naomi Fisher

On today's conversation I speak with Dr Naomi Fisher who is a clinical psychologist.


In this episode we explore trauma, child development, education and self-directed learning.


What is trauma? How might trauma show up as an adult.


She also talk about the modern education system. What is it like? What needs to change?


We also delve into boarding schools. What is the opinion of a clinical psychologist, who specialises in education, about boarding schools? Dr Fisher also attended boarding school in her sixth form. What was her experience like?


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Dr Naomi Fisher is an independent clinical psychologist and EMDR-Europe trainer. She specialises in trauma, autism and alternative approaches to education. She works with children, adolescents and adults.

She is the author of Changing our Minds: How Children Can Take Control of their Own Learning (Robinson, 2021) and A Different Way to Learn: Neurodiversity and Self-Directed Education (JKP, 2023).



Questions for Naomi:


  1. I would love for you to share some of your journey. How did you get into the work you now do?
  2. Could you please talk about trauma and child development? How does trauma impact a child?
  3. How might these trauma symptoms show up as an adult?
  4. In one interview you mentioned “School is restricting children from a natural developmental process.” Could you please explain and expand? Is school the best way to educate your child?
  5. What is your assessment of modern day schools? What needs to change?
  6. In your clinical experience what do you think of boarding schools?
  7. In my research it seems that no child development theory suggests that taking children away from parents is a good thing. If this is true, why do you think that we still say that boarding school is 'the making of us.'
  8. What is neurodiversity?
  9. What is a different way to learn? What is self-directed learning?
  10. What is your vision for the future regarding education of our children?
  11. How do people learn more about you?



To learn more about Dr Fisher and her work please visit: https://www.naomifisher.co.uk/


#trauma #childdevelopment #boardingschool #educationsystem #education #neurodiversity



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