International Men's Day
International Men's Day
International Men's Day
In celebration of International Men's Day I want to appreciate all the amazing men out there.
Please feel share this message in support of the men around you.
...
You are a King
You are.
Sometimes you do forget – the shining that is you. You forget that sometimes the world and your woman doesn't need fixing.
What they are searching for is your presence.
They are searching for your ability to not get wobbled off and lose your centre.
They are searching for your ability to stay in your heart and love them for exactly how they are.
Remember as the Arthurian legends so clearly told us, “The land and the King are one.”
When you as a man are not centred or balanced then your land is not balanced or centred.
When you as a man are in your benevolent power, joy and love then your kingdom, the world that you inhabit is empowered, joyful and full of love.
Remember that you are a King and you have that power to affect others.
…
We are coming into a time when the world and its people will need you to do the work so that you are in your King energy.
Nobody else can do this work, although you can get help.
Your work is to sort through your own projections, and baggage so that you don't dump it onto the world.
For when you do that you are able to bless those around you, support those around you and give of your gift to the world.
You are bright and brilliant.
Please remember that.
You are bright and amazing.
You have so many gifts to share with this world.
Remember to reach out to other brothers and Kings. We are here as men to support you.
Happy International Men's Day,
Please share this with the men, the Kings in your life.
Many blessings,
Piers x
In celebration of International Men's Day I want to appreciate all the amazing men out there.
Please feel share this message in support of the men around you.
...
You are a King
You are.
Sometimes you do forget – the shining that is you. You forget that sometimes the world and your woman doesn't need fixing.
What they are searching for is your presence.
They are searching for your ability to not get wobbled off and lose your centre.
They are searching for your ability to stay in your heart and love them for exactly how they are.
Remember as the Arthurian legends so clearly told us, “The land and the King are one.”
When you as a man are not centred or balanced then your land is not balanced or centred.
When you as a man are in your benevolent power, joy and love then your kingdom, the world that you inhabit is empowered, joyful and full of love.
Remember that you are a King and you have that power to affect others.
…
We are coming into a time when the world and its people will need you to do the work so that you are in your King energy.
Nobody else can do this work, although you can get help.
Your work is to sort through your own projections, and baggage so that you don't dump it onto the world.
For when you do that you are able to bless those around you, support those around you and give of your gift to the world.
You are bright and brilliant.
Please remember that.
You are bright and amazing.
You have so many gifts to share with this world.
Remember to reach out to other brothers and Kings. We are here as men to support you.
Happy International Men's Day,
Please share this with the men, the Kings in your life.
Many blessings,
Piers x
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