AEM Podcast #71 Mervin Canham – Childhood Trauma & Addictions
An Evolving Man Podcast #71
Mervin Canham – Childhood Trauma & Addictions
Addictions Specialist Talks About Recovery
and Men's Mental Health
What does the journey of recovery from addictions look like? And how can spending time in group help the recovery process?
Mervin Canham is an addictions specialist and co-leader at The Mankind Project (MKP). The MKP is an organisation aimed at changing the world one man at a time, allowing men to touch a piece of their shadow by being vulnerable with other men.
Questions to ask:
- I would love for you to share how you got into the work that you now do?
- Could you please talk about addictions and addiction recovery. What was your recovery journey like and how did you get clean?
- What was it like as a boy growing up in South Africa? What were you taught? You mentioned in another podcast that you lost your brother to suicide? How was that?
- Could you talk about men's work and the Mankind Project? What have you learned from your years in the MKP?
- Other areas to talk about:
- Vulnerability
- Crying
- Mission and purpose
- Confidentiality
- I Statements
- 10 Day Silent Retreat
- Men's circles and sitting in circles
- Trauma and addictions
- How do people find out more about your work?
#addictionrecovery #mankindproject #mensmentalhealth #tears
Connect with Mervin Canham:
Instagram:
https://www.instagram.com/brothershabazz/
Facebook:
https://www.facebook.com/mervin.canham
LinkedIn:
https://www.linkedin.com/in/mervin-canham-16237722b/
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